Am amazed at how many women lie about their age. One thing they don't realize is that the more one lies about unnecessary things, the more they stand to lose once the truth comes out.
This kind of deceit also erodes the confidence and trust your man had for you regardless of whether you already have three babies down the line. The big question every man will ask himself is what else you lied about so far. What I'd like to tell our ladies is this; not letting a man know your age or whether you have a baby until he commits to you puts a man in a fix and in case he decides to stay and continue wit the relationship, it will not be because he loves you more, but because he has spent more time wit you and he is not willing to go back to the dating game. Let the man know the basics about you so that he can make an informed decision at the beginning to avoid unnecessary tears.
Lying about your age and status will only give you short-term solutions in that you will hook up wit the man. Unfortunately, in the long-term, what you will encounter is turmoil and the man's love will wane even if he decides to stay in the relationship.
To my Kenyan sisters, jobless or not (pun intended), please know that it's not the age that matters but you, THE PERSON! Out there are men who prefer older women or women with children so stop doing yourself this injustice.
Anyway, don't let the quote 'MEN LIE, WOMEN LIE' be your motto
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